I told 2 of my close friend about my mom fetish they definetly look at me different now. They also look at my mom a more sexual way. Before she was just friend mom now shes milf friend mom.

I made a few attempts to broach the topic with three people close to me, with several years apart between attempts.

All three times utterly failed and I had to backpedal to avoid losing these people. Btw, these three people were two women and one man, all three have done very sexually fucked up things and consider 'morality' to be a joke. Even they had a massively negative reaction when I hinted at this topic. People are not ready to talk about these things yet.