There is no fucking alpha ideology.
Hitler was a considered a god (god alpha of Germany) and he did enjoyed femdom anyway.
Its just what happened during your childhood. If you had a strange relationship with your mother ecc.
Its just another version of "daddy issue"
The woman like to be degraded by hardcore sex, piss ecc.
The man loves feet, bullying and other things.
And Both masochistic man (usually feet slave) and woman (sex slave) (from what I seen by numbers of video on pornsites) like to play the slave ...
The bully version is just caused by the feeling of not being manly enough and you look to be degraded by man as well
Operant conditioning is the only way to cure fetishes. You will have hard time finding some doctor in the west though.
Stop fapping is useless everyone just relapse when feel weak.
There is good paper that explain masochistic brain
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4795098/Its great that any for of masochistic fetish (useless pretty rare physical one) is curable just by removing the positive associations between humiliation and pleasure.
The paper clearly state that not all pain is liked by masochistic (difference setting lead to different result of just bad pain vs pleasure by pain).
I wrote this too fast but I hope I helped someone.
For operant conditioning seach for aversion therapy (many example of sissy fetish cured) (its used for alcoholism in different form)
Use shock or nausea, find a way to make it by yourself unless you live in India or other shitty countries.