On the sexual confession side of whisper I once asked  "What's the darkest thing you have done ?"
  She replied  : About 3 years ago my son stole and spent half of my savings ,nearly 50 thousand on a car that he totaled 4 months later. Everytime I tried to get an apology from him , he blew me off and cused me out, he wasn't even a it sorry, he would just laugh it off. So I slept with the guy that bullied him in high school.