This is something I wonder about too: how many of the fetishists were actually bullied?

I was never bullied. If anything, I was the bully. I kinda doubt anyone with ACTUAL experience getting bullied could get off to fantasies of it. Similarly, I have the general cuck fetish but I've never been ACTUALLY cucked, so I seriously wonder if I'd enjoy if that happened with my spouse irl. Truth be told, I might LOSE the fetish if I got cucked for real. But of course I can't speak for everyone, so good question. I'd love to hear from more people.