So I chickened out back in 2021 when I originally wanted to ask him and messaged him “hey”, he responded but it never really started a convo. I’ve been thinking about it again and sent him another message saying “hey man, can I ask you something? It might be a bit weird and I hope you don’t take it the wrong way and I want you to be completely honest” and now I’m waiting for his response then I’ll ask if he’s ever fantasized about my mom. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to send that message but I was playing a game of swipe into the app and hit where it send is supposed to be and see if it sends and one time it did so I’m going for it. I’ll keep you guys updated if you want me to